To some of these women your illness is an inconvenience. After separation it becomes a downright pain in the behind for them and you come across as feeling needy. Just don’t tell them about your health at all unless they ask and then tell them it’s fine.
I saw my XW today. She mentioned my back injury when my son gave me a bear hug. Not only did I not complain about it but I Told her it’s all sorted now. She asked how so I told her I’d changed treatment regime. She would forever whinge about me sorting my back even though I was getting physio and doing everything I could (my injury was degenaerative)
Flip the script oz.
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24