Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 2

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I now have all the info and fees from 3 estate agents.

I've summarised them together so I can see what the total cost is of selling the house and, roughly, what myself and W would each get from the proceeds. Massive differences I can tell you!

I am thinking of sending this summary to her and essentially telling her to choose. It is her decision to D and sell the house. I'd really appreciate advice on what would be the best way of phrasing this.

I don't want to just say "Here are all the numbers and options. You choose. This is your thing - you know I don't want to sell the house." That to me comes across as passive-aggressive and unhelpful. I've helped her in collating the info. I don't want to choose who sells our lovely home.

Any thoughts would be really welcome, thank you!


Aside - Thank you for everyone who has commented and posted on my thread. All of your thoughts have been enormously helpful. I'm sad I didn't discover this board very early on in my situation. I really am grateful for all your input.