Midlife wife crisis9

[Wolfman]

I'm in the same boat as you Wolf. My W is loving the freedom of being on her own, responding to nobody. I also wonder when that will get old. But then I realize she's probably not on her own...she's likely with another guy. So...who knows but just focus on you.

It’s so sad that this is what they want. Why have a family? Why have kids? I just feel so duped. How does someone change that much? She was all about family and now her freedom!! I guess I need to take her approach, enjoy my freedom. Unfortunately I am starting to lose love for her. I’ve been at this for a year now. I have stood by, went and GAL, 180, made changes in my behaviors and nothing from her. It’s time I deserve better. I am a good man with a lot of love to give. I’m not saying this doesn’t hurt, because it does but I need to move on in my life. I would love to be a family again but if she doesn’t want it then I am ready to move on. Thank you everyone for chiming in, it helps a lot!!
I don’t know about anyone else here. I am going to speak honestly, I feel like a failure for getting divorced. I tried so hard and worked so hard but she is too far gone. She is not coming back. If she ever did I am playing the lotto, better chance at winning lotto than her coming back!!!