LH - I agree on working on validation. I'll keep working on that as I have the urge to jump in and speak way too much.
Kas - she can afford her new life no problem. Since she started her new job last year she makes 3x what I make. The problem for her is she doesn't feel like she can afford her life if she's also paying child support/spousal support. She's terrible at saving. Not my problem anymore, I just need to make sure she's financially responsible for her son.
I have no interest in "nicing" her back. I tried that, no effect. Now it's time to move on with my life and let what will be, be.
If she comes back down the road I'll deal with that then but as of now she's gone.
H 37 W 31 S 2
T: 7 M: 4
BD 12/18 Separated 2/19 Living back together 04/06/2019 W Moved out again 07/15/2019
