Agree completely with AS and I will add that I have had the exact. same. feelings as you. Literally word for word. So, you aren't alone and that's a natural feeling.

The question I ask myself is, what do I expect to get out of this? Is it to make me feel better? Do I think W will come back? Your answer may be different from mine but for me it was bitterness, like, "hey, everything from here on out is your fault so don't come crying to me" because, let's face it, those words and any other words you may have will not make your W come back, period.

I know that I have not yet succeeded with my bid to R but I can tell you with 100% certainty that it's actions, not words, that will attract her. So, stop with the words, save them for someone who will really listen.

Don't give in!!!

M(35), W(35), D(4)
M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019
W moved out Aug 13
House sold Sept 25
Papers signed Nov 15
Divorce finalized Dec 12