Do I need to point out the following at all, whether it be in a blunt or validating manner: - Her choice to walk away from M not mine - Sad that she didn't want to work things out and dismiss IC herself - I'd have really tried to prove my worth to her if she wanted to reconcile - Her choice to give up our life together, not mine - Her choice to financially affect both our lives
Short answer- no. Long answer- no, no, no, no and no She knows all of this already. Telling her will just make you look desperate/ needy and make her inclined to BD you all over again.
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Or should I simply GAL, completely detach, be a bit aloof, be positive and happy about MY life and where I am, and not look like I'm very sad and upset that my selfishness has caused me to lose my best friend and a wonderful woman, however flawed she may be?
She knows all of this already. Telling her will just make you look desperate/ needy and make her inclined to BD you all over again. 