I find that very odd, but this whole situation has been odd. I don’t see how we can be going through a divorce and work on our marriage. However, I feel my wife has been very immature throughout this entire process and I don’t truly think she understands what the outcome means. I also don’t think she really knows what she is doing. I truly don’t based on her actions. She has been spoiled and is always used to getting her way.
She wants to treat this like a business, so in business I shake hands. I was just trying to give her what she’s giving me. What should I have done?
Sorry, I missed your question. I do have a tendency to want to be in control, but I’ve really worked on that during this situation. I feel I’m in a much better place. In fact, I’ve basically let her have the control so she can’t accuse me of being in control.
Yes. I have read his post several times. You guys are so amazing and I truly love getting your input. I am trying to follow all the advice here and do what I think I’m supposed to do in MC.
Originally Posted by LH19
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Now I remember, your W has filed for D and now you're in MC. Do you not find that odd?
What were you trying to achieve with the handshake?
