Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by TBSakaJ9
My personal opinion is that you come clean
Timing is important. Now might be too soon. You could also wait too long.

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and both of you get into IC and MC immediately....whatever is not being met is going to fix itself.
Do this.

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You and your W need to figure out what is missing in your R because obviously there are needs not being met.
This is what is important. Maybe "OPEN and HONEST" is missing.



Do your research on this:
retrouvaille


Lead your wife through this. You can handle it.





Looked into retrouvaille. My concern is it is catholic based, we are not catholic. That in and of itself is not a problem, but Sunday worship becomes a problem. We will want to step away for a couple hours to worship with like-minded people (not necessarily OUR congregation). The information I read was that that was frowned upon.

I am still open to it though.

Last edited by Steve85; 09/06/19 05:15 PM.

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