I don't know why you can't understand it. This IMO is what is going to haunt you. What if I would have listen to the people who have seen these situations 1,000s of times?
THIS !!!!
My biggest regret is that i never put DB into practice after OM1... I lost self respect for a couple of months, all in the effort to save the family / say a tried.. All futile..
Listen, GAL, Detach - even if she doesnt respect you, gain self respect !
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.