Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 2

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Additional:

I'm mindful that of course as the house eventually goes up for sale, she and I will need to meet again to sort things out, and also for me to collect all my stuff from the house.

Do I need to point out the following at all, whether it be in a blunt or validating manner:
- Her choice to walk away from M not mine
- Sad that she didn't want to work things out and dismiss IC herself
- I'd have really tried to prove my worth to her if she wanted to reconcile
- Her choice to give up our life together, not mine
- Her choice to financially affect both our lives

I don't want to be passive aggressive (I am of course trying to avoid NGS now) but do I need to say any of the above to her at all?

Or should I simply GAL, completely detach, be a bit aloof, be positive and happy about MY life and where I am, and not look like I'm very sad and upset that my selfishness has caused me to lose my best friend and a wonderful woman, however flawed she may be?


I've always thought John Cusack would be ideal to play me in the imaginary film about my life (High Fidelity is one of my fave films and I love his character in it).