If you had followed advice, it would have been 6 months ago.. Bye bye Mr Horse. Hello GAL
Yes, when I joined the forum and I most likely would have been D by now. I wouldn’t have had to endure all the pain and suffering of knowing my W was cheating with several OM. On the flip side, I would have felt like I was the quitter. I allowed myself to be disrespected for what I saw as the greater prize of restoring my MR and keeping my family together. I truly feel giving it all you can for as long as you can is justified when you choose to love your S and especially when young kids are involved.
Me:41 W:39 S:9 D:6 T:20 M:16 PA:8/22/18, BD:11/6/18 PA discovery & IHS:12/3/18, W moves:4/2/19 R’ville:9/27/19, I give D docs:3/1/20 W home:4/5/20 (due to CV-19), W NC w/OM:4/13/20 6/1/20
