Originally Posted by Ginger1
Nothing fires me up more than when the Bible is twisted to suit ones motive .

I would say an affair with nudes phone sex and I love you’s Is a little more than finding a woman attractive, wouldn’t you say? Then I guess it would have suited Steve better to have no transparency, never find out about his wife on the game flirting and they both could keep all these things hidden and nothing will ever get fixed.

That is so far off in a comparison.

From what you are saying is they can go in sinning and if no one says anything, it’s like it’s not even happening.

How does that go forward and help what their issues are to the core?

Using the Bible that was disgusts me and I won’t even get into that.

Steve, do what you see fit, but you could both go and have EA’s when the marriage isn’t good, keep them secrets and not get to the core of the issues that are making these happen with some good therapy and open honesty.

Maybe ignorance is bliss for some


Ginger, my objective is not to win any debate. I am simply defending my words. Where is the twist?
Please don't put words in my mouth. If I am wrong, tell me where.


M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.