Hey DS9. Sorry I just saw this. I asked her this morning. She said she couldn’t because she just got in trouble yesterday for being late a lot. She waits too long to leave the house every morning. I asked if it would be different if she told her boss what it’s for. She said “my boss would say he’s a grown ass man and he can talk to the doctor by himself.” The W said “you should see the way my boss treats her own husband. It’s terrible”. She said her boss gave her a paper yesterday that said “it is the responsibility of the scale master to be at work by 7 am” and then made her sign it.
Now I feel weak and stupid for asking her. I should have got on here and read your post first. But I can’t undo the damage. Hopefully it wasn’t too much damage. I remember now when she BDed me. One of the things she brought up Was about my cancer. She said “I didn’t ask for this”. When talking about my cancer night of BD. Dang I wish I wouldn’t have asked her this morning.
I think the grown ass man part was prolly her own words right? That [censored]. Dealing with brain cancer by myself. My family is 5 hrs away.