G.....in those moments what goes on in my head are two thing.

1. I don’t want to be moms mean BF that just comes in and lays down the law.

2. I don’t want him running to his dad, aunt, or grandma telling them what I did or how I made him mad.

If we were living together, married, etc. it would be a different story but at this juncture I might only see him once or twice a month so I just don’t feel the time is right.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018