IDK, Steve and I'll probably get flamed for saying this, but that's okay. And the answer is between you and God.
Confessing something that is old and done like this is IMO, in a way, taking your burden and dumping it on your W. Are you telling her for her benefit or your own? Does she need to know? Did she ask you?
Like I said, IDK. I just want to put that out there.
Sometimes things are better left in the past, yes. But when you are trying to enforce boundaries on things you are guilty of yourself and you are hiding, kind of makes you a hypocrite, don’t you think?
But I guess that is between you and god Steve. But it will be difficult
The bible says: “You have heard that it was said [a]to those of old, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart." Mat:27-28
So should I confess this every time I find a woman attractive?
We are all hypocrites. It's part of being human. So when is it okay to leave something in the past and who gets to decide?
M 53 W 54, M since 98 D15, D19 8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM until 10/14 7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR 12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.
