Come clean or don’t come clean S the choice is yours. My personal opinion is that you come clean and both of you get into IC and MC immediately and tackle it head on. You and your W need to figure out what is missing in your R because obviously there are needs not being met. I have said it before but my fear for you is that once your daughter is out of the house one of you will pull plug. That’s is why I feel you need to tackle it head on, I don’t think whatever is not being met is going to fix itself.
