IDK, Steve and I'll probably get flamed for saying this, but that's okay. And the answer is between you and God.
Confessing something that is old and done like this is IMO, in a way, taking your burden and dumping it on your W. Are you telling her for her benefit or your own? Does she need to know? Did she ask you?
Like I said, IDK. I just want to put that out there.
Sometimes things are better left in the past, yes. But when you are trying to enforce boundaries on things you are guilty of yourself and you are hiding, kind of makes you a hypocrite, don’t you think?
But I guess that is between you and god Steve. But it will be difficult
