Hey jac

I’m not wholly familiar with your sitch but I think you’re pretty much spot on with your thought pattern and future plans. Your wife will learn the consequences of her actions including being offside with her brother.

I took my ring off about a month in. It felt really weird but it felt weirder keeping it on given the XWs treatment of me and resolve that it was over. Good luck mate!


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24