Nobody goes to hell willingly, much less stays there for 13 years.

She most likely moved out for a reason that you won't like. I'd be scarce as well, especially if she was at the house.

Don't decline all the invites, just have plans 70% off the time.

Give her the time and space she is asking for.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.