Your W feels bad for the hard times her OM is having...what about her H?

She wants to talk to OM and just be "friends" is it?

I have no sympathy for the OM and neither should you. You probably ought to give your W some space for a while bc you don't want to be talking to her about all that garbage.

Her sleeping in the other room, for the time being, is fine. Hell with all the craziness lately, you'd be sending the wrong message by trying to get her to come back to the MBR. Her phone is not the problem either, she is.

Focus on you, protect yourself, grow, heal, learn. Don't dance so close to the fire anymore my friend.

H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.