Well a lot has happened in the past three days. I let the OM wife know the details. She actually was able to know all the details. This may be unprecedented to be able to know every single detail due to the messaging game they used. She is probably going to divorce her husband but not sure. My wife was in a lot of pain the past two days with being away from him and no contact. I tried to help as it was tough to see her crying all day. I did not stay home from work but she called me constantly. Her attitude seemed to change all of a sudden so I knew she had contacted him somehow. I asked her point blank and she admitted to calling him. She has been honest and she claims she feels responsible for him having to go through a divorce and for him feeling so badly. She said she could tell he was down and out and she had never seen him this way before. I thanked her for being honest and admitting for calling him. She also admitted that she had a strong desire to continue to talk to him and that they wouldn’t be physical at all anymore. She is scared the OM’s wife will have both of them fired since she has all the information of them talking and having sex at school. I honestly am deflated that she has admitted she is addicted to the situation but I appreciate her honesty. I have told her that if she continues the deception and lies then I will move forward with divorce. I cannot continue to live in this situation and I have made up my mind that I will not love like this If she continues to hide her phone and sleep in another room then I will ask her for a divorce. I don’t think I can continue to live with this knowing she doesn’t really know what she wants.
