onward and upward! Pt 2

[DS9]

Hey Oz,

I still wouldn't ask her for anything. She may not give a c--p at the moment mate. If she sits in her input may be tainted by virtue of that.

This could be an opportunity for you to show her how strong and independent a man you are by handling this by yourself for yourself. If you are unsure about what to ask, then maybe sit down beforehand and write out a list of Q's for your medical team, have pen and paper with you during consult and write everything down, or even record the conversation on your phone and come back to it. Leave big gaps between the written Q's so you can have space to brainstorm whilst you're listening or add other Q's or concerns during the phone consult.

I'm sorry I'm not sure of whether you've indicated what your medical condition is. Was it C? Do you have family you can speak to in discussing the options? You can send them the recorded consult of Monday for their input. Ask your med team for success percentage rates for each option, that way it'll be clearer for you to make a decision (ie option A 95% success but 50/50 that blah blah will happen, option B 70% success but 10% that blah blah will happen - I'm not a med but something like that should be able to be given).