Midlife wife crisis9

[Wolfman]

Thank you for the advice everyone. I made an appointment with my lawyer to look over the stipulation. Her lawyer made changes to it. So I told her I’m going to have my lawyer look it over now because I don’t know what all those changes mean. She was annoyed. She goes how long till we get this done? Now I have to wait longer? I told her look there are changes on here so yes I have to have my lawyer look it over. She said I just want this all done and be able to move on. I said ok it will be done soon. She said I just want it to be done so she can be alone. She is enjoying her alone time and the fact that she doesn’t have to respond to anyone. She is free to do what she wants and she loves it. I knew that was why she was enjoying this divorce, the freedom. I would love to know when that gets old? Will she ever miss the family dynamic? Maybe never? I am trying real hard to move forward. I’m getting better but still have a ways to go. I can’t believe how selfish she has become but that is a mid life crisis. I just want to be the best person possible at this point.
It’s official she is done. There was no remorse there. I just need to really start accepting this and I will be better. School has started and I am not as depressed in the morning. It keeps me occupied.