Thanks peace and for sharing your story.

I think I will have to try and take things slow and see how I feel. I’m sure as I grow stronger I will feel less in the dark.

I think he has had moments of cutting off from her as I can tell in his attitude and behaviour but then goes back. And now he has gone back to work it’s like back to square one.

I will keep with the dbing and no ultimatum as Yorkie suggested too.

Faking it till making it is so physically and emotionally draining

K