I think I will have to try and take things slow and see how I feel. I’m sure as I grow stronger I will feel less in the dark.
I think he has had moments of cutting off from her as I can tell in his attitude and behaviour but then goes back. And now he has gone back to work it’s like back to square one.
I will keep with the dbing and no ultimatum as Yorkie suggested too.
Faking it till making it is so physically and emotionally draining