Hi Zip,


Most guys here talk WAY TOO MUCH to their W. Lean to Listen to UNDERSTAND her FEELINGS and validate.

Most guys here want to push their POV. Do not do this. If asked, respond "I am not sure" or "I have not decided" or "I have not thought about that"...IE postpone your answer. Come here and get guidance.



Read this thread and all the threads linked in the first post:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2846984


Hopefully we can guide you through this difficult sitch.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712