I do want this to be saved, but I am not confident that I can wait 1, 2, 3 years etc to do so. Trying to detach with each passing hour. I would also add that I noticed that she starting "changing" (new car, tattoo, etc) about 18 months ago. But she didn't verbalize anything until 3 months ago. This seems somewhat typical of MLC situations, from what I can tell.
