1. No further MC appointments unless we work on the MR. 2. Adding in some time during the 4-10. 3. Somehow addressing the constant pestering about safety?
Personally,
I would keep the MC focused on co-parenting issues. (As long as the therapist is impartial) It is nice to have a third party help negotiate parenting issues. Once every other week, or once a month.
I couldn’t disagree more. If you are there for MC, then you need to be working on your marriage. If you’re not working on your marriage then it’s not MC, it’s coparenting.
My wife uses our MC as coparenting only when she’s mad at me or wants to take a jab, but once I let both her and the MC know I wasn’t interested in attending for coparenting because I was there for MC, it has calmed down a lot and she decided to start working on our marriage.
