DS9, that's why I'm ambivalent on it. In complying fully, she will get what she wants at this moment. But she will also end up in a situation where she'll realise what she's given up.
In just 3 months, she's given up on the M, dismissed MC and IC completely. Has decided she doesn't want to work on the R.

My reluctance is that it also implies that I've given up on the M too - as if I don't want to fight anymore. I don't want any of this - I'm prepared to put the work in but she is just not interested.


Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020