Divorce because I betrayed her trust - THREAD 2

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What are everyone's thoughts on the house sale - should I assist when she asks?

Or should I simply give her all the figures with totals, letting her know what we could get (overall and the split of equity after fees/sale), and ask her to choose and get it moving? I feel she is asking me to sort it all out. When we were together I always sorted out money stuff. Part of me thinks she should learn herself.

I'm ambivalent about this.
1) I don't want to argue and appear obstructive. I've agreed to the divorce saying I will not defend. I believe this is the right course of action at the stage, again to avoid appearing as though I want to deliberately oppose/stall things.

HOWEVER 2) It's HER choice to sell. She lives there. The estate agents are near her, not me. I don't want to sell. I want MC and talks. She wants to put herself in a worse off position in many aspects of her life.