EXW thinks couple sessions, handwritten letters, and ice cream will make everything go back to normal with them but she doesn't realize that relationship is forever gone. It will most likely take years,
What is it with WAS's that do this? My WAH has sent flowers, cards, phone calls and a gazillon text messages to D17 trying to get her back. She stopped talking to him 5 months ago and says if he moves us she's never talking to him again. Moving means she loses her home and her beloved pets so yeah she's angry. From what I've read she probably won't forgive him until she's in her 20's. WAH hasn't filed yet so he could fix this but he won't. WAH has stopped pursing her so much since clearly it isn't working. He blames me of course like I have any control over a teenager with a cellphone and a car.
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I continue to be D's rock and try to keep her life as normal as possible while with me. I am going through so much since my EXW essentially just walked away without any reason given. My car just broke down and is at the repair shop, I have a horrible cold, and EXW keeps sending threatening emails. My work has added even more responsibility to my already busy schedule. Is this really the rest of my life? At least I have my D and we are an amazing team.
Same. Sick? Check. Car needs repairs? Check. Work stress? Check.
I haven't heard from WAH in 5 weeks. Things have calmed down here and me/3 teenagers have adjusted. We all pitch in. S19 helps D17 with math. D17 helps with dinner. D14 does the dishes. I do the laundry they fold and put away. The 4 of us are an amazing team. I wonder if this is the rest of my life but I try not to dwell on it because it changes nothing.
