It's great to hear you have other exciting positive things in life like the mini engagement party. Your attitutde to it shows a lot of progress appears to have been made.

As DV6 says, there are no short cuts, but you've done it the hard way and it looks like you're out the other side.

Me - 36, W - 32
No kids
T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr
Discovery - 14 May 2019
S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019
D & House sale final - Feb 2020