I've had 4 total. First two were 17 and 18 years ago. Those I admitted to my wife after her EA in 2005.
The last two were 8 and 6 years ago.
So I'm in no position to judge anyone.....
You are human and everyone makes mistakes. If anything, it helps you empathize with your W and forgive her. This is huge because there can be no R without forgiveness first.
However, be careful not to confuse judging and being able to forgive with just accepting disrespectful behavior on her part. Your mistakes more than 6 years ago should not be justification for her actions today.
