Thanks Maika.

Those were my thoughts as well.

I can't really go dark though. I'm dim maybe. We live in the same house. I don't ever call or text unless it has to do with the kids or money. We interact relatively normally when the kids are awake or around. If I DB when the kids are around she gets pissy and I don't want the kids around that so I stay cordial and more conversant than when they're not around. I emailed her today at work because I needed a date for an operational thing we're doing. Emailing her was a normal thing. She called me and asked why I emailed instead of called. Damned if I do damned if I don't...

I said it was normal. I do it all the time. She started to get irate saying that wasn't true.

I've already told her that I won't discuss our MR while I'm at work and told her that again. Very calm and nice. She made a snide comment and hung up.

Sheesh...

Thanks for your answer!


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T14
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ILYBINILWY 08/07/19
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