(((Yorkie))). I am with Yail on this one. We all have thousands of options in our lives and we make choices. I think you were loyal and committed and it was important to you to see things through. I don’t think your H is the brave one. If he was, he would have done things in a very different, more respectful way. But he didn’t... he needed someone else in his life to do it like my XH. He wanted a short cut through the pain it would take to respectfully dissolve a long term marriage. He took the coward’s way out and that decision will eventually come back to haunt him in some way. There are no short cuts. He will figure that out in time. You, on the other hand, have dealt with this situation with honour and grace and boatloads of class...you can move forward with a clear conscience and your head held high. Your H on the other hand, not so much. So happy your meeting went well and you felt nothing around your H. It is a relief, isn’t it? It tells me you have done the work and time and space has done its thing. Onwards and upwards. (((HUGS)))
