(((Kirsty))). I know how you feel. I have reached a pretty good level of acceptance, am happy in my life but still...still I get angry sometimes as I think about my XH’s lack of consequences. But, as Job says, I fully believe there are consequences that we are not and will not be aware of. For my XH, I think it will come when all of his new love hormones have worn off and he is once again faced with himself and the same issues he ran away from. Only he has given up 50% of his time with his children, ruined his R with his eldest daughter, taken a big hit to image (a lot of people know what an a$$ he has been) and is deeply in debt having bought a house where before he was debt-free. Choose better, not bitter. The phrase that has saved me countless times. It can save you too. Just remember that the BEST revenge is being happy and satisfied in your life. Work on that. If you are meant to R with your H, it will happen. Stay focused on you so that you will be better off no matter what happens. (((HUGS)))
