Is the rest of my life ruined???

[Ske0187]

Hi R2C.

Thanks for the comment!

What should you say for the "bla bla ba"?

Well, it's hard to say. Depends on the sitch I guess.

For example, last night when I came home from Jiu Jitsu, (A new GAL activity) I forgot to text her that I was on the main road. (We do that when the babies are asleep so we can let the dogs out so they don't wake them.)
So, I drive my car really slow down the dirt road and driveway so she has time. I happened to have my phone in my hand, my elbow kind of propped up on the console.

I get inside and I can tell she's about to spew but I have no idea why.

W. I know you were on the phone talking to someone, you don't have to drive slow up the driveway to finish it.
Me. I can see why you would say that but I wasn't. I was driving slow because I texted you late. I just had the phone in my hand. (Hasn't she ever heard of Bluetooth???)
W. Sure. Whatever you say. I know you were talking to someone.
Me. I'm going upstairs. Sleep well.

It's the 5th time in the last three days she's basically called me a liar. I've NEVER lied to her about anything but the usual. Birthday stuff, surprise vacations, does this make me look fat...:)

I put that in the same category of her accusing me of cheating. It really pisses me off.

The end of a long answer to your short question...

The next time it might be: The last few times we've talked, you've accused me of lying. I find it very disrespectful and speaking to you like this isn't working for me. The next time you disrespect me like that I'm going to stop having conversations with you about anything but kids and finances until you can speak to me more respectfully.
Then leave her presence...

Is that what you meant?

Thanks for the comments.