I did not respond after he said "If that's what you want". I knew what he was trying to do and all of the replies that I typed up, then deleted were kinda like flipping out. I'm glad I made the right move.
I will wait to respond.
I am not sure why he is concerned about my S. I think it's because it's an additional expense for daycare.
Last year there were a few incidents and I did tell H about all of them. Unfortunately, they happened during the school year and care wasn't available at the time.
The incidents that occurred had my S calling me while I was on my way home from work telling me that his friend was beating down the door saying he was going to kill himself. Then my son left the house to follow this kid around while he was running around with no shoes on and just shorts. When I got home I had to go find this kid who was down sitting in the stream by my house.
This could be a loooong story. Anyway, similar things happened 2x and there is a registered sex offender close by my house and I didn't feel comfortable that my kid was outside running through the woods looking for his friend. I don't want my child to be the first responder to his friends issues. My H knew this happened and he knew that I had enough. Now I have piece of mind knowing that my S is safe.
