WMLC - Thoughts appreciated!

[DS9]

For now, I would listen and validate her thoughts/feelings. I would not give advice unless she asks for it. Be a friend who listens. Don't push or put pressure on her to come back into the marriage. The comments that she has made are typical MLC jargon.

Hi job,

I was wondering if you think there are any unique aspects an LBS should apply in DBing when dealing with an MLC spouse that are different to the other types situations where a spouse has ended the M, and/or things that should absolutely not be done in an MLC situation that should be done in any other situation?

I ask because I strongly feel mine has MLC. Thank you D

Thoughts?

Hi WMLC - sorry you're here. In addition to what job has said I'd respectfully add to that by saying maybe look to your W's past and if there was any childhood trauma. Cheers D