Steve. Respectfully. I’m gonna flip the script on you. Your not a failure. You have no reason to apologize. You are a success story. Read the last sentence of your first paragraph. If that’s not success I don’t know what is

Sandi. Thank you very much.

BTW. one of my biggest 180s has just yielded massive results. My MRI is tomorrow. Check out this convo with wife

(She has told me she probably won’t go with me a month ago It’s in KC. 3 hrs away. She has always came before)

W what time is your appt tomorrow?
Oz I have to leave at 7:30
W are you nervous? (I’ve usually been stressed the heck out for a couple weeks now. Stressing her out as well)
Oz it will be whatever it’s gonna be and illl go from there
(She is stunned)
W well it feels weird not going
Oz well your not Not invited if you want to go. It’s up to you


At this point she expressed regret not asking her boss for time off sooner and now it’s tomorrow.

It was very obvious she has been expecting me to freak out and could use that as a “turn off”. She was floored about the way I’m handling it

She may decide to come lol

I told my dad about it. He said WOW. that is at the opposite end of the spectrum for you. Lol

I still need help with showing her I’m ok being done with her. But that I don’t WANT to be done with her. Make sense?

Thanks

Oz


Me 32. W. 30
T 10 years M 8
S 8

Bd 5-31-19