I reached out to my H to review the settlement to tell me what he didn't think was fair, and the visitation. He didn't respond so I asked him on the skype for work app.
I told him that I'd prefer that he maxed out the time that they weren't in school and he agreed. I then said I think it'd be best if we meet somewhere neutral to explain to the kids what is going on since they will be seeing dad on visitation and not at "home," His BS response was if that's what you want.
...wtf! I don't even know what to say to that. Of course I don't want any of this, but it's not fair to the kids to mislead them...
Second thing, he responded to my email about the settlement and said he got a call from his attorney last week and she told him that I hired someone to represent me for the settlement..
He said he was unsure why I asked him to provide details to me, unless the call is incorrect.
He then asked why our S-11 is now going to B&A... because he didn't go last year... I do not know how to address any of this but here's what I'm thinking.
The call you did receive is partially correct. I did seek advice as the free legals service does not handle any contested D action.
As far as our care for S, there were too many instances last year where he missed the bus and it's very difficult for me to get him to school when that occurs. Additionally there were several occasions last year where he got into drama with the neighbors and it's best if he is safe at SACC under supervision.
