Just like the others said. Remain skeptical and at a distance. It sounds like she said and promised so many things that it's not very realistic for them all to happen quickly. True change takes time. Think about Sandi's rules -- she is doing the "begging and pleading" that so many of us do when we are first BD'ed. Now it is in reverse.
IC for her would be the first step. I wouldn't even consider going to MC until she starts going to IC for awhile first.
