4 months in....(Re: Advice needed)

[peacetoday]

I would work on yourself
the 180s
listen to u positive tube videos, dB, and read

learn to trust yourself
you will know exactly what to do at the perfect time

If he does not want therapy, you can continue to watch the situation and watch his actions
Is he acting like a man wanting to be in a relationship
Is he texting too much? Is he secretive, is he out late at night..

you will know...

for now if he is saying the right things, that is good, most mLCers
never change the story at least that was my experience
they talk about leaving, they leave

and those that return...if they decide they still cant
they leave again

it does take time
but even if he left it takes time to work on you-

Use the time to work on you--
and continue as you are
something is keeping him there-

learn as much as you can on feminine energy . MLC, reconciliation ect

we are rooting for you