Originally Posted by LillyL
Everyday that goes by... I think I've mentioned this before, I feel less inclined to stay married to this person who is a liar, very selfish, and not the person that I'm proud to call my H. I am not sure if this is normal DB feelings or feelings of detachment. Either way, it's very freeing.


Yes, good DB'ing does lead to detachment. And you do sound like you are detaching. Your sitch has been a long one even though your time here on the forums is comparatively short, so you are long overdue for some good detachment! So that's great, glad you are doing well smile


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57