I would feel them and work through them with your therapist
sorry about that so -called friend-that is a tough thing and I hear it happens a lot
Everything in life is risky , and time will tell if your H can forgive himself and work through his issues and at the same time you must be doing things in a way that speaks to him because he is home continue to work on yourself and know you will be ok no matter what Hopefully you and your H will work through this, and get a better M than b4
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