Hallzy - you seem like you are in a really good place emotionally. I don't have any advice but I'm glad to hear there may be some sunlight in your situation. Take things slow and make sure she makes the changes. I agree with LH -IC should be mandatory on her end.

H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019