I have a dilemma coming up. I have to qualify with a firearm every quarter. The W and her AP are instructors who will be running the qualification. I will actually have to see them both at the same time. I have no other choice.

What the best course of action here. It's completely unavoidable. There will be many other people (Co-workers) there who know us both and have no idea this is going on.

There are couple things I can ask her for. None of which are really feasible operationally.

I can ask her to not be there when I am.

I can ask her to make sure he's not there.

Asking her to do either goes against the rules here. Any ideas???

Thanks.


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