Well H you know her words don't mean jack $hit so it's all about actions. The first action that she could take is to get into IC. You know how I feel without serious work on her end you will most likely end up back here at some point. If she jumped ship after year 1 of marriage wait until 15 years from now when things really get stressful. As for remorse on her part, I doubt it, she's just doesn't like that you are taking control of the situation and she wants the control back. I'm sure you have Intel that confirm she's still partying and stepping outside the marriage.
Again these posts confirm you weren't ready for divorce and were looking for a reaction.
