Thanks Job, I have tried to not comment on anything at all including the job, but find that he almost pushes me for an opinion or almost wants me to make decisions for him. He has chosen to stay there and I must now try and move forward and keep detaching like you said.
Some days I’m strong and other days feel so drained. I think focusing on myself and the children is the right path and if he wants to join it then like you say he needs to show it.
