Hey Dan I think if I found out about a 1 year PA it’d be all over for me. I think your addiction is on a much lower scale than that though. How often was it happening, when did she find out and how long had you been addicted?

Is there anything you can pick in the last couple of years which could underly her position and this was the proverbial straw?


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24