Well I am moving along living the best life possible, going on dates, meeting new people and thoroughly enjoying work. After one of my best friends passed away on July 16th I have now regained my composure, it is way harder than getting divorced. I did not run because I just couldnt get motivated. Its slowly but surely coming back.
Court case: To put this in the easiest way possible my divorce is nothing short of bizarre. Everything was settled, but actually is it ever? NO... we agreed in the court house to everything, then a she changed her mind on almost everything. More confusion, more craziness... I do not react anymore its in my lawyers hands.
S23 saw his mom for the first time in 9 months yesterday, he said she was overly nice, doting on him. His words were "It was weird". He said she really changed and wasnt sure if she was wacky, or just awkward. He just couldnt explain it. She asked him to come home and get the dog, he did, she cried when she saw him. Ok... whatever! He did say something a little off to me, he said Dad, if mom contacts you dont answer her or talk to her ever again. I said why? He said just dont shes not a good person. I said thank you but you leave that decision to me.
D25 stayed at the house with me last night, great just hanging with her. She said she is going to come more often.
D20 just got a job up at college to make extra money. I know she is struggling mentally with all that occured. Wish I could help her more, she will get through this.
S22 is away on vacation, he text he is having a great time.
Moving forward, looking to my future.
Sorry you are here, it will get worse then it will get great!
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
